Look, I get it. Self-improvement articles can feel exhausting. Another list of things you “should” be doing, another reminder of how you’re not quite measuring up.
But here’s the thing I’ve learned the hard way: transformation rarely happens through dramatic overnight changes. It’s the tiny adjustments – the almost imperceptible shifts -that eventually redirect our entire lives.
None of these 100 suggestions will revolutionize your existence by themselves. Some might not work for you at all (and that’s totally fine). But I’m willing to bet that a handful of these small changes might just make your days a little brighter, your body a little healthier, and your mind a little calmer.
No pressure to try them all. Maybe just pick one that speaks to you.
Morning Moments
- Place your phone in another room overnight. (Yes, you’ll need an actual alarm clock.)
- Drink a full glass of water before your coffee or tea.
- Open your curtains ( or whatever you have instead of curtains) immediately after waking up.
- Take five deep breaths before checking any screens.
- Write down three things you’re looking forward to today.
- Stretch for just 60 seconds before getting dressed.
- Make your bed (even if it’s messy – perfect is not the point).
- Eat breakfast sitting down, not standing or walking.
- Send a quick good morning text to someone you care about.
- Leave for work 10 minutes earlier than you think you need to.
Physical Well-being
- Set a timer to stand up once an hour.
- Keep a water bottle visible on your desk.
- Take the stairs for at least one floor.
- Do five squats while brushing your teeth.
- Park slightly farther from entrances.
- Try a new fruit or vegetable each week.
- Swap one soda for sparkling water.
- Set a “wind down” alarm 30 minutes before bedtime.
- Use sunscreen daily (yes, even when it’s cloudy).
- Stretch tight shoulders for 30 seconds when feeling tense.
Mental Clarity
- Write down intrusive thoughts instead of spiraling with them.
- Delete one social media app from your phone (you can still use it on desktop).
- Set a timer for 5 minutes of doing absolutely nothing.
- Create a “done list” alongside your to-do list.
- Ask yourself “Will this matter in five years?” when stressed.
- Try the “5-4-3-2-1” grounding exercise when anxious (notice 5 things you see, 4 things you feel, 3 things you hear, 2 things you smell, 1 thing you taste).
- Say “no” to one non-essential commitment this week.
- Unsubscribe from 3 email lists that don’t bring you joy.
- Set a specific time to check email rather than all day.
- Rename “problems” as “situations to navigate” in your mind.
Digital Detox
- Turn off notifications for non-essential apps.
- Charge your phone outside your bedroom.
- Install a blue light filter for evening screen time.
- Set app timers for social media.
- Delete apps you haven’t used in the last month.
- Create a “no phone zone” in one area of your home.
- Institute a “no screens during meals” policy.
- Replace one social media check with a quick stretch.
- Rearrange phone apps so social media isn’t on your home screen.
- Try a “gray scale” setting on your phone for a day.
Home Environment
- Clear off one surface that tends to collect clutter.
- Open a window for 5 minutes to circulate fresh air.
- Add one living plant to your space.
- Fix that small thing you’ve been ignoring (loose doorknob, dripping faucet).
- Donate one item each time you buy something new.
- Create a dedicated spot for your keys and wallet.
- Make your bed with fresh sheets once a week.
- Use a pleasant scent (candle, diffuser) while cleaning.
- Implement a “one in, one out” policy for clothing.
- Keep a donation bag in your closet for immediate additions.
Work & Productivity
- Start your workday by completing one small task.
- Use the Pomodoro technique (25 minutes focused, 5 minute break).
- Clean your desk before leaving work.
- Keep a “wins” document to review when feeling unproductive.
- Block off 30 minutes weekly for organizing files.
- Set an intention before meetings.
- Add buffer time between meetings when scheduling.
- Stand during phone calls.
- Keep a list of quick tasks for low-energy moments.
- Say “I’m focusing right now” instead of “I’m busy.”
Relationships
- Ask one genuine question before talking about yourself.
- Send a “thinking of you” text to someone random weekly.
- Remember one detail from your last conversation to reference.
- Say thank you for something specific each day.
- Set a reminder to call a family member regularly.
- Share an article or meme tailored to someone’s interests.
- Ask “how can I help?” instead of assuming.
- Fully listen without planning your response.
- Acknowledge when you’re wrong quickly.
- Express appreciation before making requests.
Financial Health
- Delete shopping apps from your phone.
- Wait 24 hours before non-essential purchases.
- Unsubscribe from retailer emails.
- Round up to the nearest dollar and transfer the difference to savings.
- Make coffee at home one more day per week.
- Review one subscription monthly to decide if it’s worth keeping.
- Use cash for discretionary spending to feel the impact.
- Set up automatic transfers to savings, even if tiny.
- Keep a “want list” with dates to identify impulse vs. true desires.
- Check account balances weekly to stay aware.
Personal Growth
- Read 5 pages before bed instead of scrolling.
- Listen to one new podcast episode during commutes.
- Learn one new word weekly.
- Try a new recipe monthly.
- Take a different route home occasionally.
- Speak up once in meetings you usually stay quiet in.
- Compliment someone on something non-appearance related.
- Write down one thing you learned each day.
- Ask for feedback on one project.
- Say “I don’t know” when you don’t know.
Evening Wind-Down
- Dim lights an hour before bed.
- Write tomorrow’s top three priorities.
- Lay out clothes for the next day.
- Prepare your morning beverage setup.
- Jot down three good things from your day.
- Put your phone in another room 30 minutes before sleep.
- Stretch tight muscles for two minutes.
- Tidy one small area before bed.
- Practice a 60-second gratitude reflection.
- End the day saying one kind thing to yourself.
Remember, the point isn’t perfection. You don’t need all 100 changes. You just need a few small adjustments that resonate with you right now. Start there. Be gentle with yourself. Small steps still move you forward.
What tiny change will you try first?